Updated: May 30, 2012, 12:37 IST

How to Make Her Fall in Love With You

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So, you know about attracting a girl and creating lasting impressions on dates.

However, if you want to convert these initial steps into the world of romance into something more substantial, you need to know how to make a girl fall in love with you. Please note that this is vital if you are thinking beyond just bedding a girl. This means you want to pursue her as your partner, i.e. be in a relationship with her. Though there are no direct formulas in love and even the most advanced of research works haven’t been able to decode it, some breakthroughs have been made. This refers to doing certain things and conducting yourself in a typical manner that is more likely to make her fall in love with you.

Discover the Xpert Tips Here:

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Being a Confident Mature Man Counts

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When dating initially, infatuation or the rush of attraction takes over and your overall personality can take a backseat. Some girls tend to dig into guys who are a bit unconventional and this includes shy, weirdly introverted, unsocial and publicly- challenged guys. However, if you want to convert the attraction into love, you need to have a more-than-basic level of confidence. For starters, most women prefer confident men when entering a relationship. Yes, women have progressed into individuals who can take care of themselves but the presence of a man who seems self-assured, gives them a comforting feeling of being taken care of. This feeling itself is a catalyst for relationships. A man exuding confidence has a natural, individualistic aura that women crave. This means being confident in the way you talk, walk, eat and your overall body language.

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Express Your Faithfulness

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This might sound a bit strange but yes, you can actually express your quotient of faithfulness. First, systematically delete every bit of evidence from your phone, email or iPad that carries the slightest hint of you having even the remotest of interest in any other female. Now, provide her full access to such gadgets. Tell her that you are doing this as a way of establishing that you can be depended upon. In this age of speed dating and having multiple couplings, faithfulness is rated highly, particularly among women. If you can establish this sort of absolute trust in her, where she doesn’t need to worry about your whereabouts, you have just raised the chances of her falling in love with you exponentially. Never talk about the best-dressed female colleague in your office and don’t keep secrets from her.

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Help Her Exploring Life

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No matter how easy your job or family life is, chances are high that you and she are often challenged to find sufficient time. Whatever time that you two get, try to use it in the most constructive manner. Spend this time in a way that she treasures it. Dating couples who eventually get married often talk about that the comforting and liberating company of each other and the quality time they spent together, helped them fall in love. The best way to do this is to be the vacuum-filler in her life. Help her explore whatever she hasn’t been able to do yet. If she wants to study more, help her in choosing courses and getting admission into
the appropriate institution. If she hasn’t traveled, go out for frequent vacations. If she tends to remain ill often, join yoga therapy sessions with her. This will ensure that that she equates time spent with you as being a direct ladder for improving her quality of her life—creating a strong case of why she would naturally fall in love with you.

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Romance Smaller Things About Her

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The lady should feel that you want to know her and love her for things, besides the obvious. Her management degree, her good looks and parental lineage all point towards a good catch but have you discovered the smaller things about her? You just need to be observant and understand her unique mannerisms. Complimenting her about such things in detail will reassure her that you adore as an individual and not just a good profile. For instance, everybody can gift a bouquet to a girl but it sounds more romantic if you get her a protective wristband just because you had noticed that incessant use of keyboard often discomforts her wrist. This conveys feelings of mature and committed caring—something that is bound to make her fall in love with you.

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Decode Her Turn-on Points

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If you two are intimate, think of pleasuring her a bit more. Try to identify the turn-on points that tend to differ across every lady. It might turn out that a small nibble on the ear is what gets her going. This is a process and you have to accept that it will take some time. Try different things from time-to-time. Discuss the possibilities with her. This gives you another kind of leverage, i.e. she is bound to see you as a virile, passionate and confident man who isn't shy about his lovemaking and respects the erotic desires of his lady too.

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Keep Her Laughing

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Some people say that having a sense of humor is highly overrated. These folks couldn’t be more wrong. In our times, where everybody is prone to stress and life seems like a constant battle, laughing is perhaps the most holistic solution to our problems. Thus, try to cheer her up whenever she is feeling low. This doesn’t mean sending her cheesy SMS messages throughout the day but using your own sense of humor and laughing about the smaller things in life.
What does this do? This ensures that she relates you with her index of happiness—creating a stronger case of why she is most likely to fall in love with you. (Dating, MensXP.com)

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